Loyalty

I’ve often heard that love is the most important thing in our lives…and while that certainly is backed up by scripture, I will offer another trait that I find most appealing. It is loyalty.

I value it and I try to model it.

Let me give you a few examples. Don’t ever say anything derogatory about my wife, my kids….or my extended family. I can do that. You can’t because if I allow that, it is being disloyal.

I grew up in a town about two hours from here and while I left there with somewhat bitter feelings over 20 years ago…..don’t be badmouthing it. Same goes for Fairfield. I have decided it is my home and speaking ill of the culture here is a non-starter for me.

I am an American and I’m damned proud of that. You can speak ill of our politics and decisions made by people in power----but do not say anything that resembles an anti-American comment to me or you will have an argument on your hands.

Loyalty starts with family….extends to your high school, college and community and should be extended to your church and your place of employment. If you follow this practice, you will have a satisfying life.

Here’s something I have always said. I’ve never been a philanderer---never shamed my wedding vows….and that is a by-product of feeing about loyalty. A man, or a woman, who can run around on their spouse, can never be totally trusted. If you can look into the eyes of your significant other and lie in a convincing way--- lying to your boss is a piece of cake. 

Love is important---I’ll grant you---but the trait I always look for when I’m looking for a friend or an employee---is loyalty.