I saw a post
on Facebook yesterday that simply said----Name One Thing Your Dad Taught You.
That would
be impossible for me. My father taught me many things…some that I passed on to
my sons…..some I found hard to swallow.
My Dad
suffered polio in high school and lost the use of one of his arms and one of
his legs. When I was born he worked as a cement finisher, a physically demanding
job for anyone…a grueling one for him.
He
persevered and decided to apply for an overnight police officer position in our
little town. In those days, a physical test was not required. Remarkably he got
the job and flourished as a cop, while our little town went through a growth
spurt. During my high school years, he was the police chief.
It was a
great motivator having your dad, toting a firearm, in the end zone, as you carried
the football.
Quite
honestly, I idolized him. He epitomized how to overcome adversity to succeed in
life.
But things
happened. He decided to leave my mom after 30 years of marriage. I had no idea
he had a problem remaining faithful. He soon rid himself of a relationship with
my sister….and finally I was dismissed. We didn’t talk to each other for a
decade. I really had no use for him.
Then one
evening while preparing a Sunday School lesson on the topic of forgiveness…I
was convicted. I reached out to him and we reconciled. I was there to care for
him in his final days.
So, Dad
taught me at least three things. There are no insurmountable barriers to
success. Be faithful….and live your faith. If I have passed those things on my
sons, and did nothing else….I’d count myself, a success.
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