Monday, August 31, 2009

The Mardi Gras of the Midwest--The Bethalto Homecoming

This weekend thousands will clog the midway in the central park of my hometown, Bethalto, Illinois. It is Homecoming time and like the swallows as they return to Capistrano, the lost and weary sons and daughters of northern Madison County will come home and relive their past. I won't, but that doesn't mean I still don't have a soft spot in this hard heart towards the very cradle of my existence.
My first memory of the Bethalto Homecoming was as a sprout, being led down the midway by my parents. We watched a gentleman introduce the acts. His name was Les Prehn. He did it for decades...ever since the Doughboys came marching home in the late 19-teens. That was the beginning of the event that has survived and flourished since.
My adolescence was marked by each Labor Day weekend. It was really a rival of Christmas for someone so in tune with Bethalto. God I loved that weekend. I blew hundreds of my hard earned dollars trying to win a rifle by blowing away all of a star in a shooting gallery. Never came close to success.
I remember the utter pride in wearing my Wilbur Trimpe football jersey to show that I was indeed a football player representing the town. Later it was the purple uniform that I still find pride in remembering.
Early adulthood led me to the Legion beer tent. That was living large. I suspect at least two of my offspring will be there to carry on the decades long tradition and tip a few with old classmates. I would go on Saturday night....drink a few and close the place down at midnight....get up at five in the morning to make breakfast for the United Methodist men...go to church to gain forgiveness for the night before.....and work the Rotary shake-up stand to round out the day. Not a problem....I was young and anyway---Monday was Labor Day.
The last Homecoming I attended was with my new wife who understandably didn't understand the Homecoming. I don't expect anyone from outside of Bethalto to understand.
Because of the events of my life, I have a sadness about the Homecoming these days. I can't see myself there. My life has moved on...well beyond those great old days.
Bruce Springsteen probably captured it best in his song, "Glory Days."
"They'll pass you by in the wink of a young girls' eye...Glory Days.....Glory Days."
God Bless my memories...

1 comment:

  1. One of my best memories of homecoming was running into you at the beer tent and getting to hang out and have a few cold ones...
    These days... well, really, the last several years... It's a lot like the circus has come to town. You go see the things you have memories of, much like the distortions of the mirror house, and you wander through the freak show assembled just for your entertainment. When it's all said and done, you realize you're better off not joining the circus after all.

    While you apparently have certain segments here in this area that aren't such good memories, there are other, silent majorities that will welcome you like the great mentor and friend that you are. You may not be able to go "home"again... but home isn't a place you go, it's a place you make.

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